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I have always been a fan of video calls with my favorite pornstars/content creators for a number of reasons. One is comfort, I just like knowing if a girl is cool before deciding to meet her (if she provides). Another reason is to find out if the girl is even open to meeting up. There is no better way than to do a few vid calls to find out. Apologies on this guide being long af
**Disclaimer: Want to state this from the jump. There is no guarantee the girl will meet up with you, provide any contact details, or anything. Just like if you go out and see a hot girl at a bar, if you approach and she turns you down it is what it is. Difference here is you paid money only to get turned away. If you don't want to risk it, use a booking agency for a girl you know provides. This is %100 a YMMV situation.
Step 1: Find out if she offers vid calls
This typically requires paying a subscription fee on OF. I've never booked a call outside of OF off a dm on social media or anything like that. Sometimes you can check if the girl offers video calls by expanding their OF profile in the more info section. Girls will put everything they offer there. Other times you have to subscribe and they'll have what they offer in a pinned post. Sometimes you don't know until you subscribe and send a DM.
Step 2: Book the Vid Call
Once you confirm she offers, ask the rate. I think this goes with out saying but %95 of girls are not running their OF pages. You are most likely talking to a management team she hired. You'll likely be quoted a rate per minute. Depending on how popular the girl is you are likely looking at anywhere from $100-$600 for 30min. I've seen higher for big names, so just be prepared if you really want to go for it, you may have to put up a lot of money. On the flip side most girls are not going to watch the clock if you are in the middle of a good convo. I've never had a girl say times up on me unless she had a live show coming up right after our call.
Once you agree on price, you are going to be asked to tip before scheduling a time. I know some people are uncomfortable with this but that's just the way it is. One thing you can do to safe guard is ask the girl/management team what platform will the call be on. They should be able to tell you if it’s going to be Skype, Snapchat, IG, etc. If they can't tell you it’s a red flag and move on. I have been burned once with paying ahead of time and the girl never scheduling, so I'm not going to say it can't happen, but for the most part tipping ahead is just standard practice. Once you tip get the platform information, share your contact on that platform, and schedule. I highly recommend taking the first available time she has to prevent any back and forth. Remember you are probably dealing with a management team and the more you go back and forth the longer it’s going to take to get scheduled.
Step 3: On the call
You may be asked what do you want to do on the call, any outfit request, etc. I always say I dont have any request and keep it casual. A lot of times these calls are just personal sex shows, so they expect a guy to come on the call ready to jerk off. Dont be that guy. Wear clothes, show your face, be presentable. You don't have to be dressed up in a suit or anything.
Once the call starts, exchange hellos and strike up a conversation. Compliment the girl on how she looks (RESPECTFULLY...not "omg you're so fuckin hot, I wanna fuck etc"), ask her about her day, where she’s from, etc.. I try not to talk about their porn, I usually just ask about their day, and discuss things around that. Listen to what they say, dont immediately start talking about yourself. Some girls are easier to talk to than others so if you need to use their porn/content as a convo starter...use it. Girls will usually want to know what your favorite scene is or whats the last one you watched etc, familiarize yourself and have that ready. Newer girls to the industry will often ask how did you find me.
One thing I try not to do is make it a sex show. Some girls will insist but I'm not a fan of just jerking off on camera. I know you may be saying… I paid money so show me something and I'm jerking it, but try not to. At least not on the first call.
Step 4: Asking about providing
Ok so you really want to know if you can meet up. IF you know she provides already/or has provided in the past just ask towards the end of the call. You know she provides so just ask, worst case she sends you to an ad or her booking agency. Best case she gives you information on how to book direct.
If you dont know she provides I'd recommend not asking right away or even on the first call, wait until she’s comfortable with you. This is where you have to use your better judgement cause it can vary how many calls this takes. If the convo was good and you sense shes cool with you, ask...if she is heavily pushing for a sex show, watching the clock, than you know its a business transaction (like shes using the porn voice, calling you daddy every 2 secs, wanting to rate your dick etc). You have to read the situation. When I ask, I usually just say “it would be really cool to hang out with you someday” to see how she responds. I don’t say "do you provide" or "do you escort" etc.
Step 5: The Answer
There's a few responses you could get here
She says No - Bummer. Buy some content if you like and keep it moving
She says Maybe - the dreaded “maybe if we get to know each other better”.
It’s quite possible she wants to feel more comfortable with you. In that case you are going to need another call so book another one. It could also be a money grab. Use your better judgement here...if this is your 3rd or 4th call, she wants you to keep paying. When I sense that, it’s time move on cause it’s not happening. If it’s the 1st or even 2nd call, go on and book another and try again.
She says Yes - Stay calm, breathe. First thing you want to do is ask for an alternative contact method to talk so you don't need book another call to discuss details. An email, follow back on social media so she sees your DMs, a phone number, etc. If you already had a day and time in mind maybe throw out a date.
My next piece of advice might be unpopular but I STRONGLY suggest planning a dinner or date type thing and then asking about the sex part. Especially if she has no known history of providing. This could be something she does not do often or even her first time meeting with a fan so anything for you to make it more comfortable do it (if your date goes well maybe she provides in the future, who knows). Resist the urge to immediately start talking about what is going to happen, for how long or using those fun acronyms. When you establish a potential day and time, you've discussed dinner or date ideas, and shes still receptive...then float the idea of sex.
For me almost everytime the girl has agreed to meet up, she is the one that said sex is on the table. I didn’t have to ask. Let her lead this part, and if the experience is not something you want you can thank her and bow out. Once she brings sex up or answers you, then ask about rate, testing requirements, etc. You might luck up and there is no additional charge or just cost of dinner (hell you’ve already paid for calls).
Last thing I’ll say if you have made it this far…I’m not going to name drop every girl this has worked with. I’ve uncovered quite a few gems though. Pornstars I never in a million years thought I’d be getting texts from, hanging out with, or laying in bed next to. When I see a name come up that I’ve had a positive experience with I’ll DM or reply on the thread to go for the vid call.
Good luck. Be respectful out there
**Disclaimer: Want to state this from the jump. There is no guarantee the girl will meet up with you, provide any contact details, or anything. Just like if you go out and see a hot girl at a bar, if you approach and she turns you down it is what it is. Difference here is you paid money only to get turned away. If you don't want to risk it, use a booking agency for a girl you know provides. This is %100 a YMMV situation.
Step 1: Find out if she offers vid calls
This typically requires paying a subscription fee on OF. I've never booked a call outside of OF off a dm on social media or anything like that. Sometimes you can check if the girl offers video calls by expanding their OF profile in the more info section. Girls will put everything they offer there. Other times you have to subscribe and they'll have what they offer in a pinned post. Sometimes you don't know until you subscribe and send a DM.
Step 2: Book the Vid Call
Once you confirm she offers, ask the rate. I think this goes with out saying but %95 of girls are not running their OF pages. You are most likely talking to a management team she hired. You'll likely be quoted a rate per minute. Depending on how popular the girl is you are likely looking at anywhere from $100-$600 for 30min. I've seen higher for big names, so just be prepared if you really want to go for it, you may have to put up a lot of money. On the flip side most girls are not going to watch the clock if you are in the middle of a good convo. I've never had a girl say times up on me unless she had a live show coming up right after our call.
Once you agree on price, you are going to be asked to tip before scheduling a time. I know some people are uncomfortable with this but that's just the way it is. One thing you can do to safe guard is ask the girl/management team what platform will the call be on. They should be able to tell you if it’s going to be Skype, Snapchat, IG, etc. If they can't tell you it’s a red flag and move on. I have been burned once with paying ahead of time and the girl never scheduling, so I'm not going to say it can't happen, but for the most part tipping ahead is just standard practice. Once you tip get the platform information, share your contact on that platform, and schedule. I highly recommend taking the first available time she has to prevent any back and forth. Remember you are probably dealing with a management team and the more you go back and forth the longer it’s going to take to get scheduled.
Step 3: On the call
You may be asked what do you want to do on the call, any outfit request, etc. I always say I dont have any request and keep it casual. A lot of times these calls are just personal sex shows, so they expect a guy to come on the call ready to jerk off. Dont be that guy. Wear clothes, show your face, be presentable. You don't have to be dressed up in a suit or anything.
Once the call starts, exchange hellos and strike up a conversation. Compliment the girl on how she looks (RESPECTFULLY...not "omg you're so fuckin hot, I wanna fuck etc"), ask her about her day, where she’s from, etc.. I try not to talk about their porn, I usually just ask about their day, and discuss things around that. Listen to what they say, dont immediately start talking about yourself. Some girls are easier to talk to than others so if you need to use their porn/content as a convo starter...use it. Girls will usually want to know what your favorite scene is or whats the last one you watched etc, familiarize yourself and have that ready. Newer girls to the industry will often ask how did you find me.
One thing I try not to do is make it a sex show. Some girls will insist but I'm not a fan of just jerking off on camera. I know you may be saying… I paid money so show me something and I'm jerking it, but try not to. At least not on the first call.
Step 4: Asking about providing
Ok so you really want to know if you can meet up. IF you know she provides already/or has provided in the past just ask towards the end of the call. You know she provides so just ask, worst case she sends you to an ad or her booking agency. Best case she gives you information on how to book direct.
If you dont know she provides I'd recommend not asking right away or even on the first call, wait until she’s comfortable with you. This is where you have to use your better judgement cause it can vary how many calls this takes. If the convo was good and you sense shes cool with you, ask...if she is heavily pushing for a sex show, watching the clock, than you know its a business transaction (like shes using the porn voice, calling you daddy every 2 secs, wanting to rate your dick etc). You have to read the situation. When I ask, I usually just say “it would be really cool to hang out with you someday” to see how she responds. I don’t say "do you provide" or "do you escort" etc.
Step 5: The Answer
There's a few responses you could get here
She says No - Bummer. Buy some content if you like and keep it moving
She says Maybe - the dreaded “maybe if we get to know each other better”.
It’s quite possible she wants to feel more comfortable with you. In that case you are going to need another call so book another one. It could also be a money grab. Use your better judgement here...if this is your 3rd or 4th call, she wants you to keep paying. When I sense that, it’s time move on cause it’s not happening. If it’s the 1st or even 2nd call, go on and book another and try again.
She says Yes - Stay calm, breathe. First thing you want to do is ask for an alternative contact method to talk so you don't need book another call to discuss details. An email, follow back on social media so she sees your DMs, a phone number, etc. If you already had a day and time in mind maybe throw out a date.
My next piece of advice might be unpopular but I STRONGLY suggest planning a dinner or date type thing and then asking about the sex part. Especially if she has no known history of providing. This could be something she does not do often or even her first time meeting with a fan so anything for you to make it more comfortable do it (if your date goes well maybe she provides in the future, who knows). Resist the urge to immediately start talking about what is going to happen, for how long or using those fun acronyms. When you establish a potential day and time, you've discussed dinner or date ideas, and shes still receptive...then float the idea of sex.
For me almost everytime the girl has agreed to meet up, she is the one that said sex is on the table. I didn’t have to ask. Let her lead this part, and if the experience is not something you want you can thank her and bow out. Once she brings sex up or answers you, then ask about rate, testing requirements, etc. You might luck up and there is no additional charge or just cost of dinner (hell you’ve already paid for calls).
Last thing I’ll say if you have made it this far…I’m not going to name drop every girl this has worked with. I’ve uncovered quite a few gems though. Pornstars I never in a million years thought I’d be getting texts from, hanging out with, or laying in bed next to. When I see a name come up that I’ve had a positive experience with I’ll DM or reply on the thread to go for the vid call.
Good luck. Be respectful out there
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